IF YOU BUILD IT HE WILL COME (OR BAD HAIR MOODS)
After many days of bad hair, just when I had accepted that bad hair day is my existential state of mind and I need to learn how to accept it, then, boom! It just happened.
Needless to say, all the girls here understand the metaphor.
Sometimes the moment just comes when you get tired of dating, trying so hard to be nice and most of the dates just wear you out and leave you impatient and drained of energy.
You decide that you are actually quite comfortable with the current situation, with your intoxicating sense of independence, freedom and endless possibilities to do just whatever you want to do.
But all of us have this urge to find our soulmate. Sometimes we take a break from trying, but soon enough we re-enter the arena and try again.
The trial month at that dating site left me overwhelmed and breathless. I apologized in advance (on my profile) for not answering every message that I get. I just didn’t want to go into a merry-go-round of endless dates.
Towards the end of the month, I stopped answering messages altogether and waited for the subscription to end.
Suddenly, I got a phone call from someone I did not even remember leaving a phone call to.
I went to meet him with a definite sense of reluctance, telling myself that I’ll give this final date 30 minutes at the most.
It turned out to be an hour and a half date, in which we laughed, shared thoughts and dreams and enjoyed every minute.
Since then we’ve been together. We are in love like 15-year-olds and feel that we have received the greatest gift of all, for our golden age.
What is the conclusion? There is no conclusion!
One thing is clear to me, that, like Noah’s Ark, most of us are meant to be in a relationship and are looking for this special one to complete us. The message is simply to not give up. Be yourself, enjoy your life, get stronger and build a stable foundation for the love and partnership that will enter your life.
“When you build it, they will come” (Field of Dreams)
I hope that this new relationship will last for many years. I hope that I’ll be able to apply what the past has taught me. Because it’s okay to make mistakes, but it’s definitely not OK not to learn from those mistakes.
Oh Gosh, I urgently want to assemble a set of feminine, soft, sexy clothes … to suit the good hair that I now have.
Stay tuned to the Golden Sexy Vibes outfit!
Love you girls!
